Autoplay false with object data not to video src

[Vaonline]

Hello. I am a webmaster of a webpage where i put my uploads of anime chapters.
I have this:

<object id="innerdiv" width="628" height="701" data="http://tu.tv/videos/azumanga-daioh-01"></object>

As you can see, the object data goes to a page where there is a video, but there is not only a video, it is not the direct link to video/flv. This is an anime so it is easier to embed by
azumanga-daioh-02
azumanga-daioh-03
azumanga-daioh-04

Just changing the last number of every chapter in tu.tv link, instead of embedding every direct video/flv with tons of different characters.

The problem is that it has autostart itself inside the webpage and i dont want it to start. But because data= is not only a video/flv direct file, the

 <param name=autostart value=no>

does not work.
So what can i do?

I hope that i explained myself.

Thanks.

[molendijk]

Does it help to put this?:

<param name="flashvars" value="autoplay=0">

Arie Molendijk.