There are two forms that I have created (in actionscript 3.0) which refer to two php files.

1) This is for the user to refer friends to the site so they fill in:

-their email
-their friends name
-their friends email

I want to forward these details on to myself but with a different message (not simply BCC). How can I do that? (my current code is below)

PHP Code:
<?php
 
// Create local PHP variables from the info the user gave in the Flash form -disabled message field
$toName   = $_POST['toName'];
$toEmail   = $_POST['toEmail'];
$fromEmail = $_POST['fromEmail'];
 
// Strip slashes on the Local variables -disabled message field
$toName   = stripslashes($toName);
$toEmail      = stripslashes($toEmail);
$fromEmail   = stripslashes($fromEmail);
 
    $to = $toEmail;
    $from = $fromEmail;
    $subject = "title";
    //Begin HTML Email Message
    $message = <<<EOF
<html>
  <body bgcolor="#FFFFFF">
<b>Hi $toName,<br />
<b>            check this out !! <br />
<b>      <a href="http://website.com</a><br />
<b>            <br />
  </body>
</html>
EOF;
   //end of message
    $headers  = "From: $from\r\n";
    $headers .= "Content-type: text/html\r\n";
    $to = "$to";
 
    mail($to, $subject, $message, $headers);
   
exit();
?>
2) The data for the second form is sent directly to me - here users enter:

-their name
-their email
-their comment

The current code below is modified from the first but does not show the variables in the message so I do not get any of those details. What must I do here? (code again is below)

PHP Code:
<?php
 
// Create local PHP variables from the info the user gave in the Flash form -disabled message field
$fromname   = $_POST['fromname'];
$fromemail   = $_POST['fromemail'];
$fromcomments = $_POST['fromcomments'];
 
// Strip slashes on the Local variables -disabled message field
$fromname   = stripslashes($fromname);
$fromemail      = stripslashes($fromemail);
$fromcomments   = stripslashes($fromcomments);
 
    $from = $fromemail;
    $subject = "my title";
    //Begin HTML Email Message
    $message = <<<EOF
<html>
  <body bgcolor="#FFFFFF">
<b>New entry<br />
<b>            print_r($_POST); 
<br />
<b>      <a href="http://www.mywebsite.com">www.mywebsite.com</a><br />
  </body>
</html>
EOF;
   //end of message
    $headers  = "From: $from\r\n";
    $headers .= "Content-type: text/html\r\n";
    $to = "myemail@myhost.com";
 
    mail($to, $subject, $message, $headers);
   
exit();
?>
Saluting all who can lend a hand with any of these.